I'm new to the business of having kids and teaching them things. So I have a website (
babycenter.com) I like to check out from time to time to let me know what I should be teaching Toby and what good advice other mothers have on there. The other mothers were discussing potty training so I decided I might as well get started on a seemingly long and difficult process, so I bought a potty for Toby.
According to
Babycenter, the First Step is to get the child used to seeing the potty around. So for almost a month I had the potty in his room collecting dust. Second Step: get the child used to sitting on the potty with clothes on. Well, that step took a couple days, then Toby himself pushed past that and onto Step 3 where he sits without clothes and diaper. I expected to stay on this step for at least a month, with Toby not peeing. I decided to buy a batman shaped
pez candy dispenser and whenever he sat on the potty he got a candy from the "Batman". That lasted for a couple days also - he seemed to understand what he was expected to do and he peed! Again I expected not to go any further than an occasional pee when I asked him to go to the potty (I have been telling him to go potty about twice a day). Well, you can guess what happened today; Toby decided to jump ahead to like, Step 5!
We were sitting watching "Biggest Loser" and about an hour before that I had taken him in to go and he went pee a tiny amount. During the show Toby came up to me and kept telling me "I want to doe" and I couldn't figure out what he meant. So finally I told him to show me what he wanted and he grabbed my hand and took me to the bathroom door. He impatiently waited for me to get his diaper off and then he proceeded to pee a full amount! He recognized the need to go and then got me to help him go in the potty instead of his diaper! And his diaper was a new one from the previous potty time so I know he hadn't peed since then.
I know this sort of thing happens all the time with other parents and their kids, but even knowing that I'm still amazed when Toby makes intelligent connections and figures things out. He's growing and learning so fast I can barely keep up!